Press Release -- Anthology Helps Grieving Mothers Cope During Mother’s Day

-- Anthology Helps Grieving Mothers Cope During Mother’s Day

Joy, Interrupted Press Release

For Immediate Release

Melissa Miles McCarter

Fat Daddy's Farm

fdfarmpress@gmail.com

fatdaddysfarm.org

Joy interrupted in new anthology on motherhood and loss

Ironton, MO - May, 1 2013 - Most people think motherhood is a joyous experience, but for some it can be an experience of interrupted joy. Joy, Interrupted is an anthology that delves into the subject of motherhood and loss from different perspectives of authors and artists from all over the world.

Joy, Interrupted: An Anthology on Motherhood and Loss is edited by Melissa Miles McCarter, and is published by Fat Daddy's Farm Press.  The paperback edition will be available on Amazon.com in May for $25.99. Pre-ordering is available until May 1.

McCarter conceived of the anthology six years after her daughter died of SIDS and then struggling with secondary infertility after an ectopic pregnancy. "I struggled to make sense of her death and cope with the pain of losing her by reading and writing about other mother's who have had experiences of loss."

After putting out a call for submissions, McCarter was amazed to see how many women and men from all over the world expressed the topic of motherhood and loss from perspectives she had never considered before. She discovered that losses in mothering are so much more than just what happens when a child dies.

Mothers and their children face loss in all forms: adoption, children growing up, estrangement, illness, disability and death. There are very few anthologies covering these different forms of loss. So editor and publisher Melissa Miles McCarter decided that it was important to create a safe place for artists and authors to explore the topic of motherhood and loss.

According to McCarter,"Editing the book allowed me to get outside myself through the creative works of others when I might otherwise have been shut down by grief."

McCarter has many hopes for how the book can affect readers: "I hope the book lets others know that their pain matters, their loss matters, and they are not alone. I also hope that it can give hope and encourage people that the risk of loving, of mothering, is worth the inevitable losses and pain that occur because of the joy that love brings."

Joy Interrupted is a creative anthology that helps explores how we can move through pain to the other side of joy. Those who have suffered loss in association with motherhood can realize they are not alone. It suggests that even after paralyzing grief, we can keep on creating, living, and to begin experiencing moments of joy again.

Fat Daddy's Farm is a small press and music company located in Southeast Missouri.

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Review of Joy, Interrupted

Review of Joy, Interrupted by Sharon Fulham, author and educator

Joy Interrupted is a creative anthology that helps grieving mothers move through pain to the other side of joy. Mothers who have suffered excruciating loss  can realize they are not alone.  This book carries a  voice of hope with words of comfort which come through the stories of its contributors.  It becomes  a safe harbor for mothers to retreat  to express grief, to rest the mind, and to read about creative ways to work through grieving.  It suggests that even after paralyzing grief,  mothers can keep on creating, living, and to begin experiencing moments of joy again.

Jenn Williamson's poem, "The First Dream," in Joy, Interrupted is beautifully written. It describes a dream about her mother six months after her death. It is wonderfully descriptive, picturesque, comforting, and awakens longing... “The First Dream” easily wraps itself around those who have lost their mother in death. Readers will hold it close to their heart. I love this poem!

Margaret Kramar's "Dining Hall" is a story in Joy, Interrupted about a mother’s struggle and reluctance to ‘let go’ of her son when she left him at college that first day. Mothers in this scenario can relate to her anguish and deep feelings of loss. It was in the ‘dining hall’ that she realized this would be their last meal together for a long time.  “I wanted to be his mother,  to feel the bond between us, to caress him with affection that falls down like soft leaves...“  Her son glared at her over his shoulder... his steel grey eyes allowing no admittance.   Mothers everywhere will understand why she sobbed all the way back to Des Moines... and they will marvel at how she came to terms with ‘letting go’. 

I am still mesmerized by Elynne Chaplik-Aleskow’s  story,  “RG" in Joy, Interrupted.  If Elynne had birthed a son...  he would have been named RG.  He would have become someone who would lessen this world’s despair ...  At the age of  forty-two she married her best friend, Richard.  As a married couple they pursued their own dreams and those dreams they built together.  As a professor, she invested  her heart and time in teaching a Communications course “LIFE 101” which she loved!  She taught her students self-esteem and how to reach their potential.  I got a lump in my throat when she wrote about her prize-winning garden of students... with which many of whom she stays in touch. Elynne Chaplik-Aleskow has an undeniably warm,  nurturing mother’s heart. You must read her story to learn more about RG and the unforgettable ending.  

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Joy, Interrupted Book Tour: Scheduling Now

I am currently scheduling dates for a book tour to promote Joy, Interrupted.  My currently planned schedule includes:

Columbia College, Chicago, IL May 23-26, 2013

University of Kansas, Lawrence, KS June 9, 2013

Stanford University, Stanford, CA Sept 25-28,

Renaissance St. Louis Hotel, St. Louis, MOOctober 11-13

Other dates and places TBA

I will be available at these dates and places for book readings, book signings, book sales, interviews and other events.  If you would like to plan an event for me to attend with you in an area I am to be scheduled to be in, please let me know.  We can also work on arrangements to bring me to your area for such events.

I am also scheduling a blog tour and interviews with various media outlets.  If you have a blog or know of a blog that would be interested in my writing a guest blog, please let me know.  If you have media outlet contacts or know anyone who would like to interview me about the book, please let me know.

If you have anything scheduled or will schedule anything to promote the book, please let me know so I can link to it and/or announce on the blog, facebook and twitter.

Best wishes,

Melissa

fdfarmpress@gmail.com

You can now pre-order the paperback copy of Joy, Interrupted for $25.99 on Amazon to be released May 1, 2013
(The picture of the cover will be up on Amazon in a couple of days, but I was excited to announce the news)

Ordering other versions (hardback, ebook) will be announced soon...(working on it!)  People promised free ebook copies will receive them before paperback comes out.

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/ASIN/0985235608